I know lots of us are doing our best to use nonrefundable flights and creating adventures for the time we had hoped to be in New Caledonia.    When life gives you lemons, as with the unavoidable New Cal trip cancellation, I see us as making lemonade.    Many IPS members have offered advice and even lodging and transportation. My trip began with 4 flights to get from my rural mountain home in Puerto Rico to the ultramodern airport LAX.  I was picked up by Andy Hurwitz a